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theimperfetc:

It has to feel wrong. At first.

Thinking of people with relationship issues, I’m reminded of golfing with my cousin, the golf pro at a local course. We were out playing a round one day, and my standard wicked slice kept happening. So he showed me how to hold the club differently. The following conversation ensued:

“I don’t know, this feels totally wrong.”

“Of course it does. The way that felt natural wasn’t working. If it doesn’t feel wrong, you haven’t changed anything.”

And that line struck me harder over the years than I would have imagined. To those of you that aren’t happy where you are, in relationships, hell, in anything, thinking about how unnatural it’ll be to change it, to get out, to start over, remember that line.

If it doesn’t feel wrong, you haven’t changed anything.

Just think on it for a bit, ok?

This is insanely accurate for me in my life right now… ❤️❤️