C.A. Jacobs

wordsnquotes:

“You just do it. You force yourself to get up. You force yourself to put one foot before the other, and God damn it, you refuse to let it get to you. You fight. You cry. You curse. Then you go about the business of living. That’s how I’ve done it. There’s no other way.”

—

Elizabeth Taylor

a-thousand-shining-stars:

– you are not a failure
– you are not a waste of space
– you are loved
– you are wanted
– i believe in you
– you can do it

lunariagold:

wreck-it-rogers:

musicalninja:

claire-temple:

That’s your friendly reminder that MCU cast loves Robert Downey Jr, a man who constantly reassure them and helps them, helped Chris Evans with his anxiety more than once and still does, helped him when he was unsure of he should sign or not such big contract with marvel. Reminder that all actors and actresses talks how nervous they were about to meet him and work with him, he was nice and sweet and always gives them advices and makes them feel at easy. Reminder that Robert is openly affectioned with all of them, hugging and kissing and let them knows Robert loves them. Reminder Robert likes to invite his co-workers to have dinner with him and always make sure to ask about allergies and nos beforehand. Reminder that Tom Holland said Robert even with how big his name is, doesn’t let it go over his head and is professional and always arrives earlier and works hard. Reminder that Robert talked marvel into paying more to his coworkers like they deserved. Reminder that there’s a reason everyone is so grateful and talks so much good things about him and is because he is genuinely nice and is a huge father figure to most of them and clearly is there if they need him.

He also helped evans with his arm injury after the helicopter scene

Just to add on here: He has called his costars in his own time to congratulate them on side projects they have done and he has seen and liked. He also does this with his employees that leave to go do something else, and if he sees what great work you have done, he’ll call you and tell you how much he loved it (ie proof is when he called Tom Holland during an interview to congratulate him on Spider-man Homecoming). He doesn’t have to do this, and with his schedule he pretty much probably doesn’t have the time to do so, but he still does it anyways because he cares about his friends’ projects, movies, etc.

I was always impressed by the fact that despite struggling with severe problems for a long while, he always remained very dedicated and professional on set. I don’t care so much about the work ethics itself but for the fact that I believe this was due to him having respect for other people- for their time, energy and needs. He wouldn’t want to drag them in whatever turmoil he was dealing with. It is obvious that he wants to make people around him feel good.

I suspect that it is as Robin Williams mentioned: Many people who have experienced deep fear, despair and self-destruction absolutely do not wish it upon others. They know it’s horrible and no way to live; they’ll do anything to protect others from it and give them a light. 

It makes me so happy that Iron Man is real.

jeffthehardway:

“Of all the things I’ve had and lost, your love I miss the most”

— Ryan Bingham – Junky Star

aranea-serket:

If you notice me reblogging

• a repost
• stolen art
• false information
• etc.

please let me know, you’re not rude or annoying and I actually do give a fuck and I will correct my mistake, thank you

slythwolf:

hollowedskin:

And speaking of gross bros thinking of nerd girls like fucking unicorns…

I was actually talking to a female client once about cannon-fannon and how much I love listening to her talk comics, and had a male client interupt us to tell me he has never met a chick that is into comics before, he’s never even heard of a girl being into comics before,  and he has always wanted a nerdy girlfriend and that i absolutely MUST give him her number.

I actually had to explain to him that I wasn’t joking when I said she was out of his league.
Yes, she is incredible, she is beautiful, she is intelligent, successful, highly knowledgeable and enthusiastic about comics, and she’s also not even going to look twice at you because literally all you got is that she fulfills a fantasy of yours.

Yes bro i get it, she’s your ideal girl.
Trust me, she’s a lot of people’s ideal girl. And you’re not even on her radar. You’re not special because you’re into comics. She has a very wide range of potential partners to choose from and ‘never having met a nerdy girl before’ isn’t a good character trait, because it means you know zero women. Or zero women have trusted your creepy ass with the knowledge that they are into comics.

The most concerning part of that entire conversation was his complete inability to grasp the concept that she wouldn’t date him and his insistence that she would.

He insisted that I give her name/number/fb/actually call her and ask her to come to the studio (wtffff???) because he needed to meet her.
And then just could not fathom that I refused.
He seemed to be running on this idea that if she met him, she would like him. For no other reason than that he was into comics and he wanted a nerd girlfriend.

And I was somehow out of line for refusing to give my best freinds deets to this creepy nerdbro because I couldn’t possibly know that she wouldn’t be into him.

He got really upset. 

He was in my studio for 45 mins arguing with me on and off about this and trying to push me into giving her number.

Out. Of. Your. League. Not on your level. Too fucking good for you. Not a possibility. You’ve got nothing she wants. You’re one of literally thousands who would want her. You have nothing to offer her. You tick zero of her boxes. You do not even meet the minimum requirements for me to even ask her.  

NOT 

HAPPENING 

MATE.

This is why women don’t say they’re women in WoW, this is why women don’t say they’re into games irl. This is why women don’t hang out in comics stores. This is why nerd women hide one of these two aspects of themselves when interacting with nerd men.

Because you creepy as FUCK about us.

‘never having met a nerdy girl before’ isn’t a good character trait, because it means you know zero women. 

truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuth