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groovian-whovian:

spinningrims:

i’m seeing a lot of people reblogging suicide hotlines and this is just a reminder that this is a suicide help line that works like a text-based instant messenger for people who may need to talk to someone but have trouble/are uncomfortable making phone calls

Never don’t reblog this.
There are so many people who have such bad anxiety about phone calls.
This can save so many lives

Also, https://www.7cups.com/ has free, anonymous chat.

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lydia-gastrell:

pinkcheesegreenghost:

rtrixie:

The way I see it, America will eventually have the choice between forgiving student debt or facing the massive destabilization caused by an entire generation being unable to build any wealth.

By destabilization I mean that the millennial generation will eventually become aware of the fact that they will be enslaved by their student debt for most of, if not their entire lives.

Many in this generation still had parents that were able to save and contribute financially to their children’s college education, but that’s also going to be a thing of the past when everyone has their own debt burden to carry well into adulthood – meaning the problem will become unimaginably worse for the next generation.

Once people realize this, you’ve got a social powder keg unheard of since the social question poised by the industrial revolution.

The entire student loan system is little more than a scheme meant to extract every last bit of present and future wealth from society’s youngest members, and the longer it continues, the uglier its inevitable end is going to be.

and so many millennials are choosing not to get married, or have kids because of all the debts they owe. 

its having much more severe consequences than people want to admit.

Oh, it’s even worse than you think, because many millennials are making the conscious decision to default. There are no real legal penalties for defaulting (debtors prison, for now, is still not a thing). You’ll get letters threatening to sue you and garnish your wages, but they are almost always empty threats. It doesn’t happen. Your credit will be destroyed, but it is technically possible to live life without anything requiring a good credit score. These are the people who will never own property, never take out a car loan, or make any other large purchases requiring financing, but they were already so strapped paying student loan payments, they couldn’t afford those things anyway! 

So where does it get “even worse”? The only real penalty for not paying those loans is that the government can, and will, withhold your social security when you reach retirement age. So 25 years from now we’re going to have a generation full of retirement age people who will not be able to retire for one of two big reasons: 1) they spent their youth living on the fringe paying massive student loans debts, and therefore own nothing to keep them afloat (like a paid off house) and they have to keep working to pay rent and survive, or 2) they chose to default so they could actually live some semblance of a life, but now they can’t stop working because no Social Security checks are coming. 

Either way, it’s a massive disaster that the government WILL end up holding the bag for. They will either forgive the loans, or they will have to take the weight of all those old millennials dropping into the safety net. They will also have to deal with the high umemployment of generation Z, which will be a direct result of the Millennials not leaving the workforce to make room for them. 

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not quite sure if it’s the same thing so I made my own post to lament another scar from being a tomboy

operativesurprise:

It comes that unique brand of anger at the color pink and dresses – I remember loving a little pink flowered dress I had as a preschooler but then, once I started being less ‘girly’ and more tomboyish I started to pretend to HATE that dress, HATE that color, because you can’t be both.

Kids, other parents, teachers even… you’re not allowed to wear overalls one day and then enjoy a flowy skirt the next.

I felt like I had to choose to be ALL THE TIME in pants and camo colors and mud because I was most comfortable there, but also when I wanted to wear a nice dress or put on pretty makeup I got made fun of by everyone so I gave up the occasional things that made me happy to spare the alienation, even if I did enjoy what I’d chosen instead.

I still have issues wearing dresses or skirts or makeup when I want to because I hate the over-exaggerated reactions of people in face of something that’s “So not YOU[me]!”

Just tell me I look pretty in this outfit and move on. And don’t lament that I could “look so pretty if I tried more” the next day when I’m back in my favorite pair of carharts.

Just because my ideal every day Look is Jack Harkness on a casino planet doesn’t mean you get to harrass me if I decide to look like John Barrowman when he was in La Cage aux Folles for a change.

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gluten-free-pussy:

magicducky:

gluten-free-pussy:

Growing up a tomboy or a gender nonconforming little girl is such a tough and painful experience. Knowing that you’re “breaking your mother’s heart” by not being the perfect little doll that she can dress up and show off like an ornament. From a young age, little girls know their lot in life: to be a beautiful wife and/or mother. To be a tomboy meant that you see the mold prepared for you and to rebel against that. It’s only cute for a while, however, and soon enough that rambunctious little girl turns into an unruly little bitch that needs to know her place. Idk the exact moment when I was broken, to be honest, but I know it happened. Even today whenever I’m wearing a skin tight dress and a face full of makeup it all still feels like a costume. Shoutout to all the butch and GNC women who fought hard to be themselves. I often wonder what sort of woman I would’ve been if I’d been left to my own devices

Between age 7 and grade 8 I refused to wear a dress

In 8th grade my mom forced me to shave my legs for the first time

In 9th grade she made me stop wearing baggy clothes

10th grade she sat me down and popped all of the pimples on my face and covered them up with foundation

11th grade my father threatened to kick me out of the house because I was stubborn

12th grade my mother made me take a date to prom, who convinced me to to date him and ended up being an absolute horror story and tried to force me to drop out of college

I’m starting my fourth year of college now. I haven’t dated anyone since I broke up with that guy. I’ve scraped my knee twice in the last 3 months. I wear a face full of makeup to work and wore a dress to a friend’s wedding a few weeks ago. My dad disowned me for several months. My mom is disinterested in basically everything I have to say.

But I’m me.

I’m so sorry, my love. You deserve better and I hope you’re in a good place where you can finally be yourself

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tlatollotl:

Cahal Pech, Belize

Photos by me. 2018

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morganalefays:

no offense but im going to get better and im taking all of you up with me

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yesdarlingido:

coffee-khaleesi:

When I was training to be a battered women’s advocate, my supervisor said something that really blew my mind:

“You can always assume one thing about your clients; and that is that they are doing their best. Always assume everyone is doing their best. And if they’re having a day where their best just isn’t that great, or their best doesn’t look like your best, you have to be okay with that.”

Any now whenever anyone in my life, either a friend or a client, frustrates me, disappoints me, or pisses me off, I just tell myself They are doing their best. Their best isn’t that great today, but I have days where my best isn’t that great either. 

this. everytime. this. 

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srsfunny:

A Very Polite Cat

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