
Thank you đ
But on. A. SATURDAY
âYou can see from your own life experiences how the environment can affect you. When youâre among peaceful, generous, happy people, youâre inclined to feel happy and peaceful yourself. When youâre among angry, aggressive people, you tend to become like them. The human mind is like a mirror. Therefore, it is very important to be conscious of your surroundings and how they affect your mind.â
â Lama Yeshe
âIf we wait until we are ready we will be waiting for the rest of our lives.â
â Lemony Snicket
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This is just a list of books of the top of my head that I read and not meant to the end all be all for what is a good novel. If you want a complete list of aces in novels that I know of the list is here.
Hello World  â This book is mine, but itâs been well reviewed so I feel Iâm allowed to include it. If you want an own voices, adult sci-fi, and cyberpunk that is lead by disabled queer people this series is for you.
How To Be A Normal Person â This is a new adult romance that features a m/m pairing with an ace hipster stoner. Itâs written by an ace and features a protag who lives in a small town. Itâs really funny, and sweet. Also getting a book two soon which Iâm very excited for.Â
Chameleon Moon â If you are a fan of things with a big cast, youâll want to try out this series. Things are quite bad for everyone, but thereâs even more hope and family.Â
Island of Exiles â When I started reading largely ace books a couple years ago I noticed a style difference and this one is has the missing vibe I used to read all the time. Big cast, mystery, and teens who gotta save their world.Â
We Awaken â An interracial f/f ace romance set against the protagâs strange dreams about loss. Among my favorite things about this book is most give you an ace coming out story or an ace who knows who they are. This has both! Itâs also among the few stories that shows aces dating aces. Like everything mentioned in this post also own voices.
A Word and A Bullet â This stand alone is technically a book two. Itâs a post-apocalyptic story that doesnât ever feel like a chore, and also quite funny a times.Â
ok kids repeat after me
vinegar and bleach makes chlorine gas, which is highly toxic
ammonia and bleach makes chloramine, which is highly toxic
rubbing alcohol and bleach makes chloroform, which is highly toxic
hydrogen peroxide and vinegar makes peracetic/peroxyacetic acid, which can be highly corrosive
be careful about your cleaning products and dont get yourself injured or potentially killed ok
why it so dangerous to be clean
As someone whoâs job is to handle chemicals like this, I need to state that this information is IMPORTANT. Plenty of people have accidentally injured or killed themselves at home because they didnât know what kind of reaction certain substances have with one another. Play it safe and donât mix chemicals.
Also donât use bleach to clean up urine itâll create chloramine bc of the ammonia in it and you can give yourself chemical pnemonia that way
bleach is scary
Last night I was about to mix hydrogen peroxide with vinegar when I remembered seeing this post earlier in the day. Thank you.
ok but like when did self-sacrifice become synonymous with death? writers seem to have forgotten that people can make personal sacrifices for the greater good without giving their lives. plots about self-sacrifice and selflessness donât always have to end in death. suffering doesnât have to be mourning. you can create drama and emotional depth on your show without killing everyone. learn to explore the meaning of living rather than dying
Death. Is. NOT. The. Only. Way. To. Advance. The. Narrative.
Fun things to sacrifice for your loved ones in your free time that donât include death and actually set up for a whole new season of high level drama:
– humanity (mostly applicable to sci-fi/supernatural genre)
– memories (mostly applicable to sci-fi/supernatural genre)
– love for that special someone (mostly applicable to sci-fi/supernatural genre)
– emotions (mostly applicable to sci-fi/supernatural genre)
– rank/position/
– yourself/your brain/your skills (give yourself over to bad guys and become their brainwashed agent so your loved ones live)
– years of bloody ruthless traditions to make way for peace (hi lexa and fuck jroth tbh)
– freedom (includes that of speech/mind/will)
– your grandpaâs fortune
– hell even material possessions have that girl sacrifice her goddamn house so they can pay off her gfâs student loans or whatever juST STOP KILLING CHARACTERS TO FURTHER YOUR PLOTOther things to sacrifice:
– your most sought-after goal
– a strongly-held belief or conviction
– your own chance at happiness
So I just read this article about how people end up fucking up whatever task theyâre doing when they feel like theyâre being watched.  Scientists have discovered that the sense of being observed actually SHUTS OFF a part of the brain, the inferior parietal cortex.Â
Given the fact that women are constantly watched in our society, and we are constantly REMINDED that we are being watched by people making fun of fat, âuglyâ, or gender-nonconforming women, it makes me wonder how many women have messed up important tasks or projects or just day-to-day activities because A PART OF OUR BRAIN is permanently being deactivated?
Like talk about a fucking handicap.
Women are constantly held under the microscope- whether we are attractive or unattractive, the gaze of patriarchy never ends.
Just last week I was walking my dog and bent over to literally pick up poop. Â Suddenly I heard whistling and looked up cause I knew I was the only person around. Â Sure enough, about 300 feet away, some construction worker was perched on top of a building, grinning at me and calling out stuff I luckily couldnât hear because he was so goddamn far away.
I wonder what it does to women to have this constant source of stress hanging over us, each and every day, knowing we are being scrutinized and examined no matter what weâre doing. Â I wonder how many more accomplishments, life-changing discoveries, inventions, etc would have been achieved by women if we didnât have this constant brain-handicap imposed on us by men.
This feeling of being watched extends even when weâre alone and affects our abilities- hereâs a study where women took a math test while in a bathing suit and performed significantly worse than women fully dressed, even though all the women were alone when taking the test. The men in bathing suits and the men fully-dressed had no significant difference in performance. It is a major fucking handicap.
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This is AMAZING. It never occurred to me that âObserving a thing changes that thingâ includes the eye of the male gaze.
This is what cripples my brain when Iâm in company? Seriously i canât even input text on the video game machine with a controller when Iâm being observed. like my brain slows down and diverts everything to panic mode. âaaaaaa donât mess up in no you messed upâ etc.
this interacts extra badly with ADHD and executive dysfunction. iâve missed so many meals because when i went to the kitchen to cook there was someone else nearby and my brain stopped working.
Hunh. So itâs not just general anxiety that causes that.
No wonder I get frustrated when Iâm gaming with an audience⌠ShitâŚ
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Why Gender History is Important (Asshole)
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This weekend I was schmoozing at an event when some guy asked me what kind of history I study. I said âIâm currently researching the role of gender in Jewish emigration out of the Third Reich,â and he replied âoh you just threw gender in there for fun, huh?â and shot me what he clearly thought to be a charming smile.
The reality is that most of our understandings of history revolve around what men were doing. But by paying attention to the other half of humanity our understanding of history can be radically altered.
For example, with Jewish emigration out of the Third Reich it is just kind of assumed that it was a decision made by a man, and the rest of his family just followed him out of danger. But that is completely inaccurate. Women, constrained to the private social sphere to varying extents, were the first to notice the rise in social anti-Semitism in the beginning of Hitlerâs rule. They were the ones to notice their friends pulling away and their social networks coming apart. They were the first to sense the danger.
German Jewish men tended to work in industries which were historically heavily Jewish, thus keeping them from directly experiencing this âsocial death.â These women would warn their husbands and urge them to begin the emigration process, and often their husbands would overlook or undervalue their concerns (âyouâre just being hystericalâ etc). After the Nuremberg Laws were passed, and after even more so after Kristallnacht, it fell to women to free their husbands from concentration camps, to run businesses, and to wade through the emigration process.
The fact that the Nazis initially focused their efforts on Jewish men meant that it fell to Jewish women to take charge of the family and plan their escape. In one case, a woman had her husband freed from a camp (to do so, she had to present emigration papers which were not easy to procure), and casually informed him that she had arranged their transport to Shanghai. Her husbandâso traumatized from the campâmade no argument. Just by looking at what women were doing, our understanding of this era of Jewish history is changed.
I have read an article arguing that the Renaissance only existed for men, and that women did not undergo this cultural change. The writings of female loyalists in the American Revolutionary period add much needed nuance to our understanding of this period. The character of Jewish liberalism in the first half of the twentieth century is a direct result of the education and socialization of Jewish women. I can give you more examples, but I think you get the point.
So, you wanna understand history? Then you gotta remember the ladies (and not just the privileged ones).
Holy fuck. I was raised Jewishâ with female Rabbis, even!â and I did not hear about any of this. Gender studies are important.Â
âso you just threw gender in there for funâ ffs i hope you poured his drink down his pants
I actually studied this in one of my classes last semester. It was beyond fascinating.Â
There was one woman who begged her husband for months to leave Germany. When he refused to listen to her, she refused to get into bed with him at night, instead kneeling down in front of him and begging him to listen to her, or if he wouldnât listen to her, to at least tell her who he would listen to. He gave her the name of a close, trusted male friend. She went and found that friend, convinced him of the need to get the hell out of Europe, and then brought him home. Thankfully, her husband finally saw sense and moved their family to Palestine.
Another woman had a bit more control over her own situation (she was a lawyer). She had read Mein Kampf when it was first published and saw the writing on the wall. She asked her husband to leave Europe, but he didnât want to leave his (very good) job and told her that he had faith in his countrymen not to allow an evil man to have his way. She sent their children to a boarding school in England, but stayed in Germany by her husbandâs side. Once it was clear that if they stayed in Germany they were going to die, he fled to France but was quickly captured and killed. His wife, however, joined the French Resistance and was active for over a year before being captured and sent to Auschwitz.
(This is probably my favorite of these stories) The third story is about a young woman who saved her fiance and his father after Kristallnacht. She was at home when the soldiers came, but her fiance was working late in his shop. Worried for him, she snuck out (in the middle of all the chaos) to make sure he was alright. She found him cowering (quite understandably) in the back of his shop and then dragged him out, hoping to escape the violence. Unfortunately, they were stopped and he, along with hundreds of other men, was taken to a concentration camp. She was eventually told that she would have to go to the camp in person to free him, and so she did. Unfortunately, the only way she could get there was on a bus that was filled with SS men; she spent the entire trip smiling and flirting with them so that they would never suspect that she wasnât supposed to be there. When she got to the camp, she convinced whoever was in charge to release her fiance. She then took him to another camp and managed to get her father-in-law to be released. Her father-in-law was a rabbi, so she grabbed a couple or witnesses and made him perform their marriage ceremony right then and there so that it would be easier for her to get her now-husband out of the country, which she did withing a few months. This woman was so bad ass that not only was her story passed around resistance circles, even the SS men told it to each other and honoured her courage.Â
The moral of these stories is that men tend to trust their governments to take care of them because they always have; women know that our governments will screw us over because they always have.Â
Another interesting tidbit is that there is sufficient evidence to suggest that Kristallnacht is a term that historians came up with after the fact, and was not what the event was actually called at the time. Itâs likely that the event was actually called was (Iâm sorry that I canât remember the German word for it but it translates to) night of the feathers, because that, instead of broken glass, is the image that stuck in peopleâs minds because the soldiers also went into peopleâs homes and destroyed their bedding, throwing the feathers from pillows and blankets into the air. What does it say that in our history we have taken away the focus of the event from the more domestic, traditionally feminine, realms, and placed it in the business, traditionally masculine, realms?
Badass women and interesting commentary. Though I would argue that âNight of Broken Glass" includes both the personal and the private spheres. It was called Kristallnacht by the Nazis, which led to Jewish survivors referring to it as the November Pogrom until the term âKristallnacht" was reclaimed, as such.
None of this runs directly counter to your fascinating commentary, though.
READ THIS.
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